Where Do You Fall on the Cultural Identity Spectrum?

Curious about how you navigate your cultural identity? Take our quick quiz to find out! Are you a "Chai Tea Latte" (blending cultures seamlessly) or more of a "Butter Chicken Pizza" (fusion with a side of confusion)?

How do you greet someone at a family gathering?

A) A formal greeting in your native language, like Namaste, Adab, Salaam, or Vanakkam

B) A mix—Namaste with a hug and a sprinkle of English small talk.

C) A quick Hi, Uncle/Aunty!

What’s your favorite comfort food?

A) Mom’s homemade biryani or dal chawal—nothing beats tradition!

B) Butter chicken or paneer tikka from the local restaurant—comfort with convenience.

C) Pizza, pasta, or sushi—my taste buds know no boundaries.

What language(s) do you use when arguing with your parents?

A) My mother tongue—it’s the most effective!

B) A mix of English and our native language—it depends on how emotional I am.

C) Mostly English—I struggle to find the right words in my mother tongue.

How do you introduce your culture to non-desi friends?

A) By explaining the meaning behind traditions like Diwali or Eid.

B) Hosting a Bollywood movie night or taking them to a local Indian/Pakistani restaurant.

C) Showing memes about desi parents and over-the-top weddings.

How do you feel about celebrating cultural festivals?

A) I dive in fully—decorations, traditional outfits, and all.

B) I’ll participate but like to add my own modern twist.

C) I enjoy watching others celebrate but don’t usually get too involved.

6. How does music reflect your identity?

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A) I vibe to ghazals, Bollywood classics, or regional music.

B) My playlist is a mix—Punjabi beats, Bollywood hits, and the latest pop charts.

C) All Western, with an occasional desi remix thrown in for fun.

How do you navigate dating?

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A) I stick to traditional approaches, often involving family input.

B) I blend both worlds—family meets the partner eventually!

C) I’m all about modern dating apps and meeting people on my own terms.

The Traditionalist 🤩

You’re deeply connected to your cultural roots and love sharing your heritage with others. While you may face challenges in blending traditional expectations with modern life, your strong sense of identity is your superpower!

The Cultural Chameleon 🤩

You’ve mastered the art of balance! You’re equally comfortable in both desi and Western spaces, blending cultures seamlessly. You’re a "Chai Tea Latte"—a perfect fusion of tradition and modernity.

The Trailblazer 🤩

You’re redefining what it means to be South Asian. Bold and unapologetic, you’re carving your own path while honoring your heritage in your own unique way. You’re a "Butter Chicken Pizza"—delightfully unconventional!