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Exploring Polyamory: A Self-Assessment
This quiz is designed to help you explore your attitudes and feelings towards polyamory. Answer the following questions to better understand where you might fit within polyamorous dynamics.
How do you feel about the idea of having multiple romantic partners at the same time?
It feels natural and fulfilling to me.
I'm curious about it but unsure if it's right for me.
I could consider it under specific circumstances or agreements.
I prefer exclusivity in my romantic relationships.
Can you comfortably discuss and negotiate relationship boundaries?
Yes, open and honest communication is a priority for me.
I can with some effort, but it's not always easy for me.
I'm quite private and find detailed discussions challenging.
I prefer when boundaries are implicit and don't require constant negotiation.
How do you handle feelings of jealousy?
I view jealousy as an opportunity for personal growth and better communication.
I am learning to manage it but it can be a struggle.
Jealousy is a sign for me to reassess boundaries and expectations in a relationship.
I find jealousy difficult to cope with and prefer situations where it is less likely to arise.
What is your perspective on sharing your partner with others?
I am comfortable with my partner having other relationships.
I am open to discussing and considering it.
I might be okay with it in a casual or less committed relationship.
I prefer to have a partner who is also monogamous.
How important is tradition and societal norms to you in relationships?
Not very important, I prefer to define my own relationship structures.
Somewhat important, but I'm open to challenging norms.
Quite important, but I'm not completely closed off to alternatives.
Very important, I value traditional relationship models.
How do you value emotional intimacy and connection in your relationships?
I believe in forming deep connections with multiple people.
Emotional intimacy is important, and I'm curious about sharing it with more than one person.
I value deep emotional intimacy but usually with one person at a time.
I prioritize a single, deep emotional connection with my partner.
How comfortable are you with change and flexibility in your relationships?
I embrace change and am highly adaptable in how I approach relationships.
Change can be intriguing, and I'm open to exploring new dynamics.
I am cautious about change and prefer a steady progression.
I value stability and consistency, and change can be challenging for me.
What is your perspective on love and romantic feelings?
I believe love is abundant and can be shared with many people.
I think love can be expansive, and I'm intrigued by the idea of loving more than one person.
I love deeply, often focusing my romantic energy on one person at a time.
I prefer to direct my romantic love towards a single individual.
How do you envision your ideal relationship structure?
A web of interconnected relationships, each unique and fulfilling.
A primary relationship with the potential for additional connections.
Primarily monogamous, with occasional discussions about alternatives.
A singular, exclusive partnership.
Are you seeking a relationship where you can grow and explore with multiple partners?
Yes, personal growth through multiple partnerships is very important to me.
I am open to the idea, but I still have a lot to learn before I decide.
Possibly, if it feels right and doesn't compromise existing relationships.
No, I prefer to focus on growing with one partner at a time.
Polyamorous Pioneer
You appear to be very open to polyamory, with a strong interest in exploring multiple romantic or sexual relationships simultaneously.
Polyamory Curious
You seem to have some interest in polyamory, but might still be weighing its advantages and disadvantages or considering it hypothetically.
Monogamish
You lean towards monogamy but show some openness to the concepts of polyamory, perhaps in a more limited or specific context.
Firmly Monogamous
You strongly prefer monogamous relationships and likely do not see polyamory as an appropriate relationship style for yourself.
