Intimacy Assessment
How strong is your marriage? Take this free intimacy assessment to find out.
by James Walther, MA, ABS - Catholic Relationship and Sex Coach
Instructions: Each spouse/partner is to take this assessment on their own. Select the option that you feel is most true of your marriage/relationship.
How closely aligned is your faith with that of your spouse?
How often do you and your spouse pray together?
How often do you and your spouse attend religious services/devotions together?
How closely aligned are your values/morals with those of your spouse?
To what degree do you and your spouse hold the importance of religion in your daily lives?
How closely aligned are your life goals with those of your spouse?
How often do you talk with your spouse about your life goals, hopes, and dreams?
How much do you and your spouse support each other in accomplishing your life goals?
How often is speaking with your spouse intellectually stimulating?
How many interests or hobbies do you share in common with your spouse?
How comfortable are you with sharing your emotions with your spouse?
How often do you and your spouse communicate affection?
How often do you feel a deep emotional connection with your spouse?
How quickly are conflicts/hurt feelings resolved?
How strong would you say is the trust between you and your spouse?
How comfortable are you expressing your physical needs with your spouse?
How satisfying would you say is your sexual intimacy for you and your spouse?
How often do you and your spouse express non-sexual physical affection?
How strong would you say is your physical desire for each other?
How often do you or your spouse fall into unfaithfulness (adultery, pornography, masturbation)?
Personal and Demographic Info
Anonymous results from this survey are being used for ongoing research regarding marital intimacy and marital satisfaction. Please complete the form below to see your results.
Very Strong
You have a high level of intimacy. Keep growing in the areas where you are weak. If you don't know where to start, then professional coaching or counseling may be beneficial.
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Strong
You have a high degree of intimacy, but you still have room to grow. Renew your efforts and seek support from a mentor couple, pastor, therapist, or relationship coach.
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Weak
You have some solid points in your relationship, but there may be times and areas where your relationship is more of a burden than a support. Maybe you have some areas that are stronger than others, but if you don’t use those stronger areas to grow the weaker ones, the weaker ones will kill the others. Outside support from a mentor couple, pastor, therapist, or relationship coach will be a strong help to find and address the causes of your weak areas.
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Very Weak
Your relationship is in critical need of outside professional support. At this stage, it is very unlikely that you will be able to overcome the barriers to your intimacy on your own.
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