What's Blocking You From Love Quiz
How do you feel about love right now?
How do you respond when someone shows interest in you?
What patterns show up in your relationships?
How do you view your own worthiness for love?
How do you handle past heartbreaks or disappointments?
Which belief feels most true for you?
What do you feel is missing in your life right now?
How comfortable are you expressing your needs in relationships?
When you think about a loving relationship, what comes up?
What steps are you currently taking to attract the love you desire?
How do you feel when it comes to dating someone new?
What do you focus on when swiping through a dating app?
What’s your biggest relationship pet peeve?
How do you react when your friends tease you about your picky nature?
When you think of the future, what scares you the most?
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Fear of Vulnerability and Emotional Walls
Root Cause: Past heartbreaks, betrayals, or unfulfilled relationships. How It Shows Up: Women may build emotional walls, avoid opening up, or sabotage potential connections to protect themselves from getting hurt again. Common Thought: “If I let my guard down, I’ll just get hurt again.”
Low Self-Worth / Settling for Less
Root Cause: Societal pressures, previous unhealthy relationships, or negative self-talk. How It Shows Up: Women either settle for relationships where they feel undervalued or avoid dating entirely because they don’t feel worthy of the kind of love they desire. Common Thought: “I’m not good enough to attract the man I truly want.”
Unconscious Attraction to Emotionally Unavailable Men
Root Cause: Childhood dynamics, unresolved emotional wounds, or a need to “prove” worthiness. How It Shows Up: Consistently attracting men who can’t commit, are inconsistent, or emotionally distant, which reinforces feelings of frustration or rejection. Common Thought: “Why do I always attract men who aren’t ready?”
Lack of Trust in Men or Relationships
Root Cause: Betrayals, toxic past relationships, or negative societal messaging about men. How It Shows Up: Doubting intentions, over-analyzing behavior, or assuming relationships will inevitably end in pain. This mistrust keeps women controlling, micromanaging men and from fully receiving love. Common Thought: “All men eventually let you down.”
Hyper-Independence
Root Cause: Societal messages about independence, past relationships where they felt overly dependent, or fear of losing themselves in love. How It Shows Up: Women struggle to let someone in or relinquish control, believing they must “do it all” alone. This creates masculine energy dynamics that repel potential partners. Common Thought: “I don’t need anyone—I’ll figure it all out myself.”
Too Strict, Expectations Too High
Root Cause: Unrealistic standards, fear of settling, or past relationships failing to meet expectations. How It Shows Up: Women may struggle to find partners who match their criteria or consistently feel disappointed. Common Thought: “No one is ever good enough for me.”