Do we need a sex coach?

There are times when the check engine light indicates that it would be good to get some maintenance work done. Other times it is there to let you know that your car is about to break down. Consider the first to be a want and the latter a need. Now think of the quality of your sex as your relational check engine light.

Use this short quiz to help you determine whether you need professional sex coaching.

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How frequently do you and your spouse/partner typically have intercourse or perform other sexual acts (fellatio, cunnilingus, anal sex, etc.) with each other?

1. 6+ times a week

2. 4-5 times a week

3. 2-3 times a week

4. Weekly

5. 2-3 times a month

6. Monthly

7. Less than monthly

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When was the last time you and your spouse/partner had intercourse or performed other sexual acts with each other?

1. Within the last week

2. Within the last month

3. Within the last six months

4. Over six months ago

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When was the last time you had an orgasm?

The last time that I had sex.

Not the last time, but recently

It has been months/years

Never

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Desire: “How strong is your sex drive?”

Please indicate your OVERALL level during the PAST WEEK, including TODAY. If you have not had sex within the past week, then think back to the last time you had sex.

1. Extremely strong

2. Very strong

3. Somewhat strong

4. Somewhat weak

5. Very weak

6. Absent

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How easily are you sexually aroused?

Please indicate your OVERALL level during the PAST WEEK, including TODAY. If you have not had sex within the past week, then think back to the last time you had sex.

1. Extremely easily

2. Very easily

3. Somewhat easily

4. Somewhat difficult

5. Very difficult

6. Never

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For men: Can you easily get and keep an erection? / For women: How easily does your vagina become moist?

Please indicate your OVERALL level during the PAST WEEK, including TODAY. If you have not had sex within the past week, then think back to the last time you had sex.

1. Extremely easily

2. Very easily

3. Somewhat easily

4. Somewhat difficult

5. Very difficult

6. Never

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How easily can you reach orgasm?

Please indicate your OVERALL level during the PAST WEEK, including TODAY. If you have not had sex within the past week, then think back to the last time you had sex.

1. Extremely easily

2. Very easily

3. Somewhat easily

4. Somewhat difficult

5. Very difficult

6. Never

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Are your orgasms satisfying?

Please indicate your OVERALL level during the PAST WEEK, including TODAY. If you have not had sex within the past week, then think back to the last time you had sex.

1. Extremely satisfying

2. Very satisfying

3. Somewhat satisfying

4. Somewhat unsatisfying

5. Extremely unsatisfying

6. Never achieve orgasm

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Is sex painful for you or your spouse?

Sometimes

Yes

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Do you have a history of sexual trauma?

Yes

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Want

Based on your answers, your sex life is not in critical condition. So, sex coaching in a group format may be the best fit for you.

https://www.catholicintimacy.com/group-coaching

Need

Based on your answers, your sex life raises some red flags indicating that things are far from ideal. Whether the situation is acute or chronic, it likely requires professional assistance. So, for you, sex coaching is a need, if you want things to improve.

See our coaching page for more details.

https://www.catholicintimacy.com/coaching