On what level do you feel that you think about others’ feelings?
I feel that I try to do the right thing as much as possible.
Do you go out of your way to comfort someone when they’re upset?
Do you feel happy when good things happen to others, even if nothing good is happening for you?
If you make a mistake that hurts someone, how likely are you to apologize?
Do you try to keep promises, even when it’s inconvenient?
Do you help people only when there’s something in it for you?
Do you ever feel jealous when someone else is doing better than you?
Do you ever put others’ needs before your own to the point where it hurts you?
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The Good-Hearted Person
You are naturally empathetic and strive to do the right thing. You care about others, apologize when you’ve hurt someone, and often celebrate people’s successes.
Strengths: Compassion, honesty, reliability.
Potential pitfall: Sometimes you may neglect your own needs by focusing too much on others.
Growth Tip: Keep that big heart, but remember you matter too.
The Balanced Heart
You care about others and try to do right by them, but you also prioritize yourself. You’re fair and considerate without overextending.
Strengths: Healthy empathy, fairness, balance.
Potential pitfall: At times, you might feel torn between self-interest and kindness.
Growth Tip: Keep strengthening your empathy muscle while holding onto your sense of self.
The Self-Focused Heart
You tend to prioritize your own needs and feelings more than others’. While this doesn’t make you “bad,” it may cause you to overlook how your actions affect people.
Strengths: Independence, self-reliance.
Potential pitfall: Friends or loved ones may sometimes feel dismissed or unsupported.
Growth Tip: Practice pausing before acting to ask, “How will this make the other person feel?
The Closed or Hurting Heart
Your answers suggest that you may often ignore or even dismiss others’ feelings or act in ways that serve you while hurting others. This can stem from past wounds, distrust, or a habit of self-protection.
Strengths: Strong self-preservation, focus on your own needs.
Potential pitfall: Over time, this can erode trust and damage connections.
Growth Tip: Explore why it feels hard to open up to others. With awareness and effort, your heart can shift toward kindness and connection.