Quiz: Which Asian or Pacific Islander leading man is your dream date?

Who says AAPI men can’t be rom-com leads? Take reign of your romantic fate by taking this AAPI Heritage Month quiz to reveal which heartthrob is your perfect match.

Your ideal date night is:

An intimate dinner at a cozy, Michelin-starred restaurant.

Hiking to a scenic spot and having a picnic.

A hilarious night at a comedy club or improv show.

Getting wild at a concert or sporting event.

A cozy night in with takeout and your favorite movie.

Exploring a street festival or night market.

Pick a rom-com trope that makes you melt:

Slow-burn romance where best friends fall in love.

The stoic hero with a secretly soft heart.

Funny misunderstandings that lead to adorably awkward moments.

Epic declarations of love in the face of adversity.

Fake dating that turns into a real connection.

"Enemies to lovers" with undeniable chemistry.

You're drawn to a leading man who is:

Charming, sophisticated, and incredibly romantic.

Ruggedly handsome, outdoorsy, and a bit mysterious.

Witty, always makes you laugh, and has impeccable comedic timing.

Bold, adventurous, and has a zest for life.

Sweet, thoughtful, and the kind of guy you can take home to meet the family.

Creative, passionate, and a little bit quirky.

Your favorite way to unwind is:

Exploring art museums, galleries, and cultural events.

Getting lost in nature – camping, hiking, anything outdoors!

Trying new restaurants, bars, and checking out trendy spots.

Traveling, seeking out thrills, and new experiences.

Curled up with a good book or binging a great series.

Working on creative projects - painting, music, or anything hands-on.

Uh oh! Problems abound. What conflict trope is most likely to happen?

The long distance is too much. Can we go back to where we met on vacation?

A looming family emergency throws the relationship off balance.

An ex, long lost, suddenly re-enters the picture.

You question if this is too good to be true.

Miscommunication, leading to the inevitable dramatic confessions of love.

Our lifestyles are too different, but the connection is undeniably there.

Things are getting steamy. How are you setting the mood?

The two of you ARE the set mood—nothing else matters.

The unwavering eye contact seems to be doing just fine.

Poppers and pop music, baby.

Soft sheets, warm dim lights with the record player on.

Backseat of the car seems good to me.

Probably should turn off the video game we forgot about, still running in the background.

Which of these romantic gestures is the swooniest?

A heartfelt handwritten letter or poem.

Fixing something broken and showing off their handyman skills.

A surprise serenade (even if slightly off-key).

Planning an entire day filled with your favorite activities.

Gifts that show they really listen and know you well.

Recreating a favorite memory or special moment in detail.

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Dev Patel

You're a classic romantic! You appreciate sophistication, traditional gestures of affection, and a touch of old-school charm. Dev Patel's soulful presence and ability to make every moment feel significant would sweep you off your feet.

Steven Yeun

You love a man who is down-to-earth, outdoorsy, and has a hidden sensitive side. Steven Yeun's quiet intensity, rugged good looks, and undeniable charisma make him the perfect outdoorsy rom-com leading man for you.

Bowen Yang

You need someone who keeps you laughing! Bowen Yang's hilarious personality, impeccable comedic timing, and ability to find humor in any situation would make your rom-com a laugh-out-loud adventure.

Jason Momoa

You like your leading men bold, adventurous, and a little larger than life. Jason Momoa's infectious energy, zest for life, and adventurous spirit would create a whirlwind romance you'd never forget.

Charles Melton

You're looking for the best of both worlds: someone with a down-to-earth heart, a sense of comfort, and the potential for excitement. Charles Melton, with his boy-next-door charm and undeniable presence, is the all-around great guy of your rom-com dreams.

Alexander Hodge

You have a taste for sophistication with a dash of artsy flair! Alexander Hodge's elegance, creativity, and undeniable charisma would create a whirlwind romance that's full of passion and delightful surprises.