Find Out Your Relationship Style
Take the quiz and uncover questions to proactively design your lives together.
Select the option that fits best.
You two are in an exciting stage of life, newly committed to building a future together. As you lay a strong foundation for your relationship, you’re focusing on shared goals and dreams, managing finances, planning your family, and creating a shared living space, all while deepening your emotional and physical connection.
Try out these powerful questions to build a strong foundation for your future:
- What 5 key words describe your brand and shared values as a couple?
- What three needs do you each have that are foundational to feeling supported?
- What are each of your communication styles and love languages?
- What do you most need during moments of stress or conflict?
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You are are focused on the ever changing needs of parenthood while maintaining your relationship. Amid juggling the endless tasks of keeping humans alive and hopefully happy, supporting each other is key to managing evolving responsibilities and ensuring both of you cope well.
Try out these powerful questions to bring about more ease to your lives:
- How might we carve out time for just each other and keep our connection growing?
- How might we distribute, outsource, or systematize the load of managing a home together to bring about the most ease for both of us?
- How might we show gratitude and care for one another, especially when sleep deprived?
- How might we build or evolve our village to help ease the challenges of child-rearing?
As your children become more independent, you’re entering a reflective period and adjusting to changing family dynamics. You may be rediscovering personal interests, aligning them with shared goals, and nurturing your relationship. Through hobbies or travel you're focusing on enriching your lives together and deepening your bond during this transition.
Try out these powerful questions to lead fulfilled lives together:
- What are some things each of us used to do for fun that may have fallen off the radar?
- How can we arrange our resources to support each of us pursuing that which brings us joy?
- What would we want to do alone or with each other?
- What’s a tangible step we can each take today to reclaim what brings us joy?
As you or your partner navigate career changes, you’re facing excitement and uncertainty. This period involves adapting to new roles and responsibilities, focusing on financial stability, managing stress, and supporting each other’s growth. You’re both making strategic decisions to enhance your careers and ensure fulfilling outcomes for your shared future.
Try out these powerful questions to help navigate this uncertain time:
- How might we best emotionally support each other in pursuing a satisfying career?
- What household needs and expenses must be maintained vs. what can adapt if one of us needs more time away from earning an income?
- How do we value unpaid labor within the home and how does this unpaid labor play a role in our collective finances?
- What is our financial runway and how much time can each of us invest in finding a career that feels aligned?
As you search for a place to call home, you’re on an exciting journey involving exploring locations, evaluating finances, and considering long-term implications for your lifestyle and family. Your focus is on finding a home and location that offers comfort, meets your needs, and fits your budget, while you both support each other emotionally through this significant transition.
Try out these powerful questions to find what feels like home to you both:
- What does “home” mean to each of you or what feelings do you each want to have within your home?
- What are the top 5 characteristics each of you need for your new home?
- How might you evaluate your potential homes against these needs?
- How will you resolve things if you have conflicting needs or preferences?