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How soon did your partner ask for commitment?

Within days or weeks. This felt too soon for me and I wasn’t ready.

Within a few weeks. It felt a bit fast, but we were both ready to commit.

Within a few months. We discussed it and were on the same page.

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How quickly did your romance progress?

It escalated quickly with surprising declarations of love and commitment.

It’s developed gradually over time.

It moved a little faster than what I’m used to.

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Does your partner make statements about the future that feel out of sync with how well you know each other?

No, I feel like we’re on the same page with the progression of our relationship.

They often make big statements like this and it doesn’t feel organic.

Sometimes they make these statements and I’m unsure how I feel about them.

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How often does your partner communicate with you?

Regularly, but they respect my personal space.

Frequently, and sometimes it feels overwhelming.

Constantly, and they often expect me to respond or make time for them immediately.

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How often does your partner make grand gestures, like giving extravagant gifts or taking you on expensive trips?

Everyone once in a while, usually timed with important events or milestones.

Occasionally. I'm grateful, but it can be a lot.

This happens all the time and I often feel bombarded.

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How does your partner typically express affection?

They use lots of flattery or make grand gestures, and it often feels forced and excessive.

They give more verbal praise and physical affection than I’m used to and sometimes it feels inorganic.

Through a healthy balance of verbal and physical affection.

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What’s their approach to handling disagreements or conflicts?

They engage in open and respectful communication to resolve issues.

My partner often avoids conflict and/or becomes defensive.

It’s tricky, but we usually come to a place of resolution.

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Does this person respect your personal space?

Rarely. They frequently become clingy, insistent, and/or or try to guilt me.

Sometimes. They may express hurt or impose at times, but they usually grant me my space.

Often. They usually respect my need for personal space by default and whenever specifically requested.

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How does your partner respond to your accomplishments?

They go way overboard to celebrate even the smallest accomplishment.

They genuinely celebrate my achievements and support my goals.

They seem to run hot or cold when I share my good news.

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What’s your partner’s response when you discuss concerns or doubts about the relationship?

They minimize them, ignore them, or overwhelm me with reassurances or distractions, making it difficult to voice my concerns.

They sometimes respond with defensiveness or dismissiveness, but eventually try to understand my perspective.

They listen to my concerns and work with me to address them.

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What’s your partner’s approach to discussing the future of your relationship?

They discuss future plans openly and genuinely consider my desires and goals.

They rush into making future plans or commitments early in the relationship, disregarding my input.

We may have differing opinions, but they’re willing to compromise and find common ground.

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How do they respond to your expressed vulnerabilities or insecurities?

They sometimes struggle to fully understand my vulnerabilities, but they try to be supportive.

It often feels like they exploit my vulnerabilities to gain control or persuade me.

They offer support and understanding, creating a safe space for me to express myself.

This Relationship Is Progressing in a Healthy Way

While no relationship is completely perfect, your answers suggest that you’re in a healthy partnership where each person’s needs are being supported. Both people are generally on the same page about the relationship’s trajectory, and things are moving at a consistent and steady pace that feels organic and doesn’t overwhelm you.

Here are some ways you can keep up the momentum!

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Even if things are going well, don't be complacent! It's important to continue to check in with your partner to make sure that both of your needs are being met in a way that feels appropriate to each of you. Open communication, mutual attraction, and emotional support are keys to keeping a good thing going.

It's Possible There's Some Love Bombing in Progress

While no relationship is completely perfect, your answers suggest that you two aren’t 100% on the same page. Your partner may be exhibiting some behaviors aligned with love bombing, which they may be aware of or completely oblivious to. Sharing your concerns openly, improving communication, and working toward shared relationship goals can help put you on a more fulfilling path.

Here are some ways you can do exactly that:

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Remember, there is always hope for a relationship that is based on mutual attraction, open communication, and ongoing emotional support from both parties. Keep fostering those healthy relationship behaviors, but don't be afraid to move on if you feel like your needs cannot be met by your current partner.

You're Likely Being Love Bombed

Your answers to this quiz suggest that your partner may be engaging in love bombing behavior. Whether they are aware of this or not, you’re often overwhelmed by their gestures, statements, and behaviors, and feel like the relationship is moving too quickly.

If you really like them, there’s still hope. Express your concerns openly and evaluate their response. If they seem genuinely apologetic and open to pulling back the reins to get on the same page, this is a good sign. However, if they become defensive or can’t cease the love-bombing behavior, it could indicate they’re not in the right place for a healthy relationship right now.

Here are some resources to help you navigate this situation:

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There is always hope for a relationship that is based on mutual attraction, open communication, and ongoing emotional support from both partners. If your relationship can get to that place, great! If not, it may be time to move on to seek a relationship in which your needs can be met in a way that feels right for you.