Likeable Person Test

/12

When you meet new people, you act:

Friendly and eager to chat! I want to learn more about them.

Quiet. I won't make the first move, but I'll talk to them if they approach me.

Anxious or awkward. I don't know how to start a conversation, nor do I necessarily want to.

/12

An acquaintance shares good news with you. How would you react?

I'll listen to them but won't say much or get too excited.

TBH, I have a hard time paying attention or being genuinely interested when this happens.

I would be excited for them and congratulate them.

/12

When you're having a conversation with a group, you:

Listen to each person talking and respond to what's being said, asking questions and commenting when appropriate.

Sit back and listen without saying much. I tend to wait for others in the group to lead the conversation.

Can't wait to speak, so you interrupt others and take over the conversation with more interesting things you want to discuss.

/12

How do you respond to someone who disagrees with your opinion?

Listen to their views, respect their perspective, and agree to disagree.

Listen without saying much or arguing your point because you're right and they're wrong.

Shut down their views and try to get through to them. Points need to be made.

/12

Which statement best describes how often you support other people?

I do my best to be supportive, but I won't go out of my way if it isn't convenient.

My needs come first, and I'd rather people seek support elsewhere or figure it out themselves.

I'm always supportive of others and try to be there for people when I can.

/12

A coworker tells you they made a mistake and are worried about it. How do you react?

Tell them we all make mistakes and try to help them see how they can learn from the experience.

Just listen and hope for the best.

Tell them they have to live with the consequences. Oh well.

/12

Which statement describes your typical reaction to someone else's achievements?

I'm really supportive and try to acknowledge all their efforts.

They're not my achievements so I don't need to make a big deal about it.

I might acknowledge it if it's something major.

/12

How empathetic are you?

Not really empathetic. It's hard to understand how others feel.

Pretty empathetic. I always try to see things from others' perspective.

Sort of empathetic. I'm not constantly thinking about how others feel, but sometimes I'm able to put myself in their shoes.

/12

How frequently are you the one to reach out to friends or acquaintances?

Sometimes. I might send a message here and there, but I usually wait for someone to reach out to me first.

Rarely. They should reach out to me if they want to interact.

Often. It's important to reach out to others to maintain relationships.

/12

How do you react when you have a conflict or disagreement with someone?

Get angry at them and refuse to budge, even if it damages the relationship.

Talk through it and try to find a resolution that works for both of us.

I try to avoid conflict at all costs. I don't want to deal with it so I'll just keep the peace.

/12

During a conversation you typically:

Don't really listen because you're focused on what you'll say next (which is more important).

Listen carefully to the other person or people. It's interesting to hear different perspectives and learn how others see things.

Try to listen as much as possible. I may tune out a bit or interrupt if I have something to say.

/12

How often do you think others would describe you as positive or optimistic?

Very often. I'm a glass-half-full kind of person and try to keep things positive.

Rarely. I'm usually the pessimist in the group or-as I like to think-a realist.

Sometimes. I can be optimistic in some situations and can take a wait-and-see approach at other times.

Your Results: Not So Likeable

Your score indicates that you may not be a likeable person. You tend not to care what others think of you (which is very admirable!), but if you feel like social situations and interactions with others are challenging, there are ways to improve your ability to connect with people.

Also, remember that likeability is subjective. This quiz is based on traits that are generally considered to be likeable, but whether or not people like you also depends on their experiences with you and their personal preferences. Either way, you can learn how to connect with others on a deeper level with these tips:

How to Cope With Being Unlovable
How to Be More Likeable
What to Do When You Feel Like You Don't Need Friends

We get it, social interactions can be tough to navigate—but hope is not lost. You might consider working with a therapist to examine your behavior and learn how to improve your social skills. Or maybe you have an inner circle that appreciates you exactly the way you are and are happy with that. It never hurts to be true to yourself.

Your Results: Somewhat likeable

Your score indicates that you’re somewhat likeable. We all have different preferences in terms of who we like or dislike. Lucky for you, you're generally a quite likeable person, though you may not always seem approachable.

Remember that likeability is subjective. This quiz is based on traits that are generally considered to be likeable, but whether or not people like you also depends on their experiences with you and their personal preferences. Either way, you can learn how to connect with others on a deeper level with these tips:

How to Make Friends as an Adult
How to Be Open-Minded and Why It Matters
How Social Support Contributes to Psychological Health

Being likeable can be helpful for your mental health as long as it is authentic. Engaging with respect, empathy, and a genuine interest in others improves wellness by enhancing the quality of your interactions and relationships.

Your Results: Very likeable

Your score indicates that you’re very likeable. You're really easy to get along with based on your openness and thoughtfulness to new ideas, perspectives, and people. While you consider the needs of others, don't forget to also take care of your own.

Remember that likeability is subjective. This quiz is based on traits that are generally considered to be likeable, but whether or not people like you also depends on their experiences with you and their personal preferences. Either way, you can check out these tips for maintaining healthy relationships:

How to Maintain Friendships
Why It's Important to Stay Close to Your Friends
How to Increase Your Sense of Belonging

Genuine likeability comes from authenticity and empathy, not a relentless pursuit of approval. While likeability is a helpful quality, it is important to maintain a healthy sense of self and boundaries in the process.