Walking on Eggshells? Recognize the Signs of Coercive Control

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Do you find yourself constantly monitoring your partner's mood? Are you afraid to disagree or say no? Coercive control is a pattern of behavior designed to dominate and control through manipulation, intimidation, and isolation—often without physical violence.

This assessment will help you identify these subtle but harmful patterns. Remember: feeling trapped, confused, or afraid in your relationship isn't normal. You deserve to feel safe and free to be yourself.

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I feel like I'm constantly being criticized or never measuring up to their standards.
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My partner makes me feel guilty or selfish for wanting basic needs met.
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I feel trapped and don't know how to safely express my concerns or leave.
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I feel like I can't be myself or express my true thoughts and feelings.
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I feel like I need permission to make basic decisions about my own life.
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My partner withholds affection, attention, or intimacy as punishment.
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My partner threatens me, our children, or people I care about when they're angry.
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My partner uses our children to control me or manipulates custody arrangements.
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I feel afraid to disagree with my partner or express my own opinions.
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I've been told what to wear, how to act, or who I can be friends with.
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I've been isolated from friends and family, or my partner discourages these relationships.
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I constantly monitor my partner's mood to avoid triggering conflict or anger.
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My partner checks or monitors where I go, who I see, or what I do.
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My partner controls and is in charge our finances, and/or limits my access to money.
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My partner checks my phone, emails, or tracks my activities.
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